Dobb Mayo
Home
Notes
Books
Playbook
Ask Dobb
Programs
Archive
Leaderboard
About
Subscribe
Sign in
Latest
Top
Ask Dobb: "Why Can't I Get Over It?"
A parent wrote to me about the end of the road — and named the one grief nobody warns us about.
Aug 12
•
Dobb Mayo
Tryout-Week Scripts
The exact words for the four moments that decide how the week feels — on a card for your glovebox.
Aug 9
•
Dobb Mayo
The Night Before Tryouts
The pep talk you're about to give before tryouts raises the stakes when your kid needs them lowered. One question does the opposite — and it's the wrong…
Aug 7
•
Dobb Mayo
The Specialization Audit
Ten questions that separate a real developmental decision from a fear you were sold — plus the identity check that tells you whether the sport has…
Aug 2
•
Dobb Mayo
July 2026
Specialize Now or Fall Behind
The one-sport push is sold as the serious parent's choice. What it actually builds is a kid with a single point of failure.
Jul 31
•
Dobb Mayo
Know Where Your Kid Ranks
You've been told a sharp sports parent keeps an eye on the competition. The science says that's exactly how you build the more fragile athlete.
Jul 24
•
Dobb Mayo
The Rearview Routine
The three comparison traps to catch on the drive home, the questions that build a durable athlete instead, and a two-minute weekly loop that moves your…
Jul 23
•
Dobb Mayo
The Steady One: A Leadership Self-Audit
On Friday, we looked at why teams follow one kid. Here’s the tool that shows your athlete which of those skills they already have — and the one to build…
Jul 19
•
Dobb Mayo
1
The Science of Why Teams Follow One Kid
It’s rarely the loudest. It’s rarely the best player. The research says the kid everyone follows is usually doing something quieter — and it may be…
Jul 17
•
Dobb Mayo
1
The Rule Nobody Wrote
There's a rule at my kid's school now.
Jul 15
•
Dobb Mayo
The Science of the Pre-Game Stomachache
Why your kid can’t eat the night before tryouts — and why “it’s just nerves” gets the story exactly backward.
Jul 10
•
Dobb Mayo
2
1
The 90 Minutes Between Games
Your kid just played badly. There’s another game in an hour. Here’s what the science says to do with that window — and the one thing that quietly wrecks…
Jul 6
•
Dobb Mayo
This site requires JavaScript to run correctly. Please
turn on JavaScript
or unblock scripts