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Best, Worst, Hope
The three questions I ask my daughters after everything — and why the order is the whole trick.
Sep 6
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The Question That Can Wait
The science of why the after-game debrief backfires — and when the talk lands.
Sep 4
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August 2026
The Word in Your Chest
The game-day card that makes holding back automatic — one rule for your mouth, one reset for the moment you want to coach.
Aug 30
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The Cheer You Hold Back
What your sideline voice actually does to your kid mid-play — and the one rule that gives your cheer its power back.
Aug 28
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The Audit That Ends the Argument in Your Own Head
Friday, I made the case that "specialize early" is a bad bet. Today, the 12 questions that tell you what your kid is actually doing.
Aug 23
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Specialize Now or Fall Behind
It’s the most repeated advice in youth sports. The research went looking for the proof — and couldn’t find it.
Aug 21
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Ask Dobb: "Why Can't I Get Over It?"
A parent wrote to me about the end of the road — and named the one grief nobody warns us about.
Aug 12
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Tryout-Week Scripts
The exact words for the four moments that decide how the week feels — on a card for your glovebox.
Aug 9
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The Night Before Tryouts
The pep talk you're about to give before tryouts raises the stakes when your kid needs them lowered. One question does the opposite — and it's the wrong…
Aug 7
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The Specialization Audit
Ten questions that separate a real developmental decision from a fear you were sold — plus the identity check that tells you whether the sport has…
Aug 2
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July 2026
Specialize Now or Fall Behind
The one-sport push is sold as the serious parent's choice. What it actually builds is a kid with a single point of failure.
Jul 31
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Know Where Your Kid Ranks
You've been told a sharp sports parent keeps an eye on the competition. The science says that's exactly how you build the more fragile athlete.
Jul 24
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